Tuesday, 16 July 2019

INI EDO: When marriage failure turns things around *Her fears, weaknesses and triumphs!




 Ini Edo's journey into the world of make-believe remains a case of fulfilled expectations. At the time she debuted in the industry in 2003, featuring in the movie,” Thick Madam,” the actress was oblivious of what would become of the lifetime journey.
But sixteen years after she took that bold step, Ini Edo can tell better, if the journey didn't worth the trouble. In any case, the dark-skinned screen diva has enjoyed more accolades and followership than she had received knocks and condemnations, following her screen characters and lifestyle. She became the producers' favourite after starring in “World Apart” in 2004, and since then, she has featured in more than 100 movies and rated as one of the highest-profile actresses in Nigeria and Africa at large. Following her popularity then, the movie marketers attempted to sanction her, fingering her arrogant attitude on set and lack of commitment as part of the reasons for their proposed action against the actress.

However, while she was enjoying the spotlight, she was hit by cupid’s arrow as she married her United States-based ex-husband, Philip Ehiagwina. The marriage, contracted in 2008, crashed in September, 2014, following accusations of domestic violence and cheating. Though the marriage did not produce any child, it was, however, the darkest moment of Ini Edo's life, and many doubted if she would ever overcome the trauma.
Speaking on ‘Rubbing Minds,’ a Channel Television programme back then, the actress cited irreconcilable differences and incompatibility as the major reasons for the crash of her marriage.
She also blamed distance as part of the reason for the crashing of her marriage, insisting that closeness should have saved her marriage since her former husband was in America, while she was in Nigeria.
“Staying together would have helped to save our marriage. Because it would have enabled us to understand each other more. May be it would have helped but I’m not sure,”she said.
Like every other woman who wouldn't be happy, when her marriage crashes, Ini Edo felt so much emotional pain, not even when the bad news kept trending on social media for months.
Amidst all her pain, the beautiful actress explained how she tried to keep her marriage to no avail. “I tried to keep my movie roles as decent as possible when I got married. But naturally, there are certain roles you won’t be allowed to play. Even when you are allowed to play them, you can reject them not just because of your husband but you also have relations as well.”
“I tried not to regret the time I spent in marriage, but I would say, it’s been an experience. I have learnt a lot from it. It has made me a stronger person. It has also made me wiser and more mature.”
However, despite her defence, many believed that Ini was too reckless to be in marriage. But the Akwa-Ibom State-damsel insisted that the reports of infidelity on her part were a conscious and malicious attempt to tarnish her image. For her, the crashing of her marriage was a painful phase in life, which should not be used to judge her future. And true to her belief, the end of her marriage marked a turning point in her life.
Ini Edo rose above her fears and weaknesses, taking her destiny into her hands after her marriage crashed. She became more visible and things started looking good for her. It was at that point, the actress was appointed as the Special Assistant to the Akwa Ibom State Governor on Culture and Tourism by Udom Gabriel Emmanuel in 2016. She has made a fortune out of signing many contracts and starring in many blockbuster movies. Being a superstar actress, Ini Edo was in the recent past chased after by many glamorous brands for endorsement contracts. Most famous among them were Slim Tea Nigeria and Noble Hair, all of which had brought her hundreds of millions of Naira. What's more, the number of her awards is equally impressive as her net worth.
In her spare time, Ini Edo engages in many charitable causes. She has many causes close to her heart that she gives both her time and resources to and is known for her big heart. The glamorous star is also known for her knockout style. Never one to do things by halves, Ini is all about high-octane style and she always looks perfectly turned out. Not resting on her oars, the actress is indeed living her dream more as a single than as a once married woman. Her achievements in the shortest time would shock you. Reports had it that the happening actress had fleets of posh cars in her garage and some houses. Her most notable house is located in Lekki, Lagos, which she bought after her divorce. The list of cars in her garage ranges from a Range Rover SUV, a BMW and a rather masculinity-looking car, a G65 Mercedez which she bought for more than a half the price of her other cars, N40 million. It was also rumoured that the actress recently added a bullet proof Lexus to her fleet of cares.
For anything, Ini Edo has no reason to brood over her crashed marriage. In fact, one wonders if she ever remembers that she was once married. A visit to her Instagram page or any of her social media platforms, could indicate what this beautiful actress is up to: A captivating display of fashion, style and luxury, all rolled into one. At 37, Ini Edo has surpassed the expectations of her critics.
When it comes to beauty and style, the actress has dished the ultimate pepper stew and her over five million fans are licking as much as they can. She's becoming a fashion icon. From colourful outfits, to black and red numbers, Ini carefully chooses her colours and has taught everyone a lesson in looking fly and owning it.
Known for playing daring and captivating roles in movies, the actress is said to have eyes for handsome and powerful men. She was once romantically linked to the likes of Jim Iyke, Koko Master, D’banj, but the rumours were either denied by Ini,or unfounded.
Recently, the Brown Sugar, as she fondly calls herself, celebrated her 37 birthday, and it was a day to remember by some of her friends and family members who turned up for the birthday bash. After the birthday bash, the actress did not fail to wet her fans' appetite with super stunning birthday shoot photos, which she posted on her Instagram page. It goes to say that Ini Edo rarely missed anything in marriage, even as it's rumoured that she's got another brand new butterfly in her stomach.


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