Becoming a widow in Nigeria is often
followed by a fall into extreme poverty – a situation usually
aggravated by widespread practice of property grabbing and sometimes,
physical abuse. Consequently, they are subjected to food insecurity
due to poverty or unemployment, failure to find basic and school
necessities for their children, lack of shelter, difficulty in
accessing working capital for small-scale businesses, and
victimization by harmful cultural practices.
In many traditional settings, the death
of a husband can put women at the risk of social segregation and the
loss of the security and social status their partners would have
provided. They are immediately banished to the fringe of society and
suffer different forms of stigma and discrimination.
For any nation or society interested in
fostering progressive development, it is important that citizens
create a social climate conducive for collective achievement. Apart
from the need to adopt a friendly culture that dignifies victims and
recognizes their pain, widows need support systems that provide
opportunities to reintegrate into society after the loss of their
spouses.
If we are going to achieve this,
everyone needs to understand that widows are extremely disadvantaged.
In a country where culture and tradition are used as tool to oppress
disadvantaged women, we have a collective responsibility to overcome
these barriers with practical solutions to alleviate their poverty
and helplessness. Either as a corporate imperative or individual
responsibility, actions and decisions have to be taken to
rehabilitate widows disenfranchised by poverty and unemployment.
Consider Lipton’s ‘Reason To
Smile’, an initiative by Unilever Plc.’s leading tea brand which
is aimed at supporting 1,000 Nigerian widows with necessary care
packs and seed fund to start a business. Expected to be executed in
states across Nigeria, the Lipton ‘Reasons to Smile’ campaign is
also giving all concerned Nigerians the opportunity to get involved
with one Lipton pack at a time, give widows a reason to smile and
lighten their burden.
In many Nigerian communities where a
lot of women are housewives, fully dependent on their husbands, it
becomes a great challenge when such families lose their breadwinner
and find it difficult to cater for themselves and their children.
These women need to be given a helping hand – a lifeline to create
a better future for themselves and their communities in general.
The challenges that widows in our
communities and cities experience daily affects everyone. They are
our mothers, sisters, friends, neighbours and more. They remain one
of the most marginalized persons, a depressing reality that has dealt
a blow to compassion and decorum in our society. The least we can do
is to care for them and also provide them with opportunities for
solutions – which is the objective of the Lipton brand.
Widows need be celebrated and
encouraged. They are an integral part of our society and deserve as
much respect and dignity as anyone else. As women and mothers, they
are active members of the Nigerian society who contribute to national
development. We cannot allow them to be victimized and subjected to
untold hardships just because they lost a loved one, Lipton is saying
we have the power to lighten their burden and put smiles on their
faces.
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